Saturday, January 8, 2011

Mata 0.O


Saya ada sepasang mata sama seperti manusia lain. Mata untuk melihat. Tapi apa yang membezakan kita ialah minda yang menafsir objek dan isyarat yang kita terima. Itu sebabnya ada istilah 'cantik' dan 'hodoh' dalam dunia ni.
Tapi kalau 'beauty on the eyes of beholder' tu salah lah kan ? Sebab mekanisme mata hanya tangkap cahaya, hantar ke otak dan otak(minda) yang akan tafsirkannya. hmm.. something is wrong somewhere. haha..

Jadi, kalau saya kata JGS tu hot, tak de siapa boleh bantah sebab minda kita tak sama. haha..

Ni ada satu cerita pasal mata(persepsi) :
Ada yang kata pakai tudung tu nampak kolot. Setuju?

Seorang kawan gusar tentang pemakaian tudung dalam masyarakat sekarang.
Yelah, hampir kadang-kadang kita terlupa kenapa kita pakai tudung dan kenapa ada yang tak pakai.

Kita pakai tudung.. opss, maaf ya kaum Adam. Istilah 'kita' disini merujuk kepada kaum Hawa saja. haha.
Kita pakai tudung sebab nak jaga aurat dan kehormatan diri disamping memenuhi tuntutan syariat. Kalau macam sekarang ni banyak fesyen-fesyen tudung yang 'lawa' tapi sayangnya tak menepati syariat sangat.
Kalau kita pakai tudung betul-betul, nampak kolot ke ?

Korang rase?

Atau patut ke kita ikut trend sekarang?
dan
lepas tu..
kita jadi hamba fesyen.
ahh.. (hamba fesyen?)

Cuba lihat arus perkembangan fesyen sekarang (termasuk yang bertudung). Semuanya menuntut wanita mendedahkan diri mereka. Dalam maksud lain, 'fesyen' telah memperalatkan wanita untuk melariskannya. so, what the heaven! Kenapa kita nak diperalatkan kan ?

Lepas tu ada pulak yang kata;
kalau pakai tudung tak ikut trend, nanti lelaki tak pandang sebab tak comel. (gulp)
haha..
Kalau lelaki pandang kita dapat apa ?
Duit? Fame? Bangga?
atau....
dosa?
Tak payah kita nak kisah pasal dioragn nak pandang kita ke tak.
kalau khuatir sangat , doa je . huhu.. kan syllabus SPM ada ajar, doa tu senjata mukmin. :)

The best thing (in my mind) is,
pakai apa yang kita nak pakai (tudung) tapi sudah semestinya, mengikut syariat.

Biarlah orang nak kata kolot ke , tak up-to-date ke.. lantak lah. yang penting kita tau apa yang kite buat tu betul. Kita cari keredhaanNya bukan redha manusia.
huhu. cakap senang, tapi nak buat susah, kan ?
jadi apa-apa pun, jom kita sama-sama berdoa agar dikurniakan hidayah yang kekal dan dapat kembali menujuNya dengan selamat. *amin*

*sekian*

p/s: fly me to the moon, xxx. :) |commercial break!|

5 comments:

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  2. Well, naturally...it depends on the person. Obviously, based on hukum syariah, it is a must to cover up. But then again, its up to the person if they are willing to follow. While some may agree, on the other hand, some may disagree.

    I've seen people who don't cover up, they look pretty. But i've also seen a girl who wears tudung, who looks ever prettier. So what do you think? The girl with the beautiful hair or the girl with the beautiful tudung?

    The best idea? Well, i think, its best to be yourself. If you prefer wearing tudung, you should wear. If you prefer having a beautiful hair, then maintain the hair. P.S, not trying to ask every girl not cover up,ya?

    The misconception of a girl wearing tudung, is old skool and stupid, is really rubbish. Not every "gadis bertudung" is stupid. There are some really nice girls out there. Its just that some guys ask alot.

    Therefore, be yourself. Don't be pressure, just go with the flow!

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  3. Dahlan, thans for responding.
    Well, as for me i think wearing tudung is a goft from Allah swt.
    Once we received the gift , we have to keep it carefully so that it will never go astray.
    Since wearing tudung is a must (most of people has a misconception towards this issue), so, there are reasons for it.

    about 'just be yourself' . well then, this is only an idea. no offense okay?.
    if, 'yourself' is such a jerk, do 'you' still have to be yourself? or have to immitate others to improve 'the self' to a better self ?

    :)

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  4. Dear Blogger,
    I agree with you on that. Yes, its a gift from God. Every women needs to cover with a hijab. Infact, we so lucky that we don't have to cover our whole face compared to the Saudi Arabia,which covers fully.

    Nah, the reason i'm saying be yourself, is because, you can't force someone to instantly start covering up. Indeed, some people are pretty with and without their tudung. So, let them decide if they want to. Its not recommended, but its up to them. We should know where we stand right?

    Well, again the just be yourself in your opinion, i do agree. Sometimes people try to make hip hop culture as a daily culture, which actually, is a rubbish culture. Best idea? Mix & Match.

    Have fun,
    smile always :)
    - Average Dahlan

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  5. thanks again for responding. :)

    Anyhow, we should seek for the Gift or else we will never find it.

    btw, thanks for responding bcoz with few tits and tats will make me even mature .

    u too have fun.
    May Allah bless u .

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