Monday, August 31, 2009

for a REASON, SEASON or LIFETIME??

Some thoughts:

after gone through an email from loved ones, the way of perceiving things has changed. i used to question why he (mr.red ranger[best buddy lah]) draw a veil over our friendship. this is the email i wanna share :

"people always come into your life for a reason, a season and a lifetime. when you figure out which it is, you know what exactly to do.
when someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. they have come to assist you through difficulty or to provide you with guidance and supports to aid you physically, emotionally or even spiritually. they may seem like a godsend to you, they are. they are there for a reason, you need them to be. then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. sometimes they die, sometimes they just walk away, sometimes the act up or out and force you to take a stand. what we must realise is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. the prayer you sent has been answered and it is now time to move on.
when people come into your life for a season, it is because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. they may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. they may teach you something you never done. they usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. believe it! it is real! but, only for a season. and like Spring turns to Summer and Summer to Fall, the season eventually ends and turn into kaleidoscope of colours and joy..
Lifetime.. relationship teach you a lifetime of lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway); and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas in your life. it is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.."

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hat is how the email sounds like. and now i believe that he came for a reason. though im not pretty sure what is/are the reason/s but yeah.. he came for a reason. so, no more question bugging my mind on why he left. but frankly, i just miss our old good days. but maybe the replacement has been done. i mean, maybe. entahlah..
by the way, i would like to acknowldege few people in my life who came for REASONS, SEASONS and LIFETIME.
the name list:
1. parents
2.siblings.
3.family.
4.friends.
for number 1, 2 , and 3- no elaboration coz they already know.. but for number 4.. should have an elaboration, i guess..
they are my SaSa, best buddies, M group (RIMUP JOHOR)...
well anyway, sometimes life is too hard to define but sometimes it just as easy as ABC. and much to my confusion, i'd to ask . this seem kinda simple but it confuses me. well, people said: good things don't last forever. the moment and mean last for now and ever. my question is: if good things dont last, what 'things' last? *wink*
hmm.. my schedule as a student will restart tomorrow. at some parts of me, i feel wanna extend my break but it is so impossible. my god! im feeling indifferent. i should regain the motivation and spirit.. SMK SAUJANA UTAMA. it has been two weeks i didn't attend school since i went to RIMUP. (boy, i miss RIMUP!really!) taking my breath to exhale with such a good mood to pursue my goals and aims. besides, En. Dr. Syazwan says; enjoy life at school. ok.ok. i will.
anyway, can you just believe that my current profession is being a Dr. Love. haha.. i laughed myself. most of my friends would likely take me as their love consultant. and frankly, my advices are good. haha.. i just dunno how they worked out.. maybe because of my immaginative mind.. lol.. what a brag!
anyway, i have finished with my reading. the 'Cup of Comfort' book. and right now im focusing on 'Ive read the rules and know how do i play the game'. hopefully i'll manage to finish reading it before its due date to be sent. awy to PPAS. i didn't read the faizal tehrani book,1515. x sempat. [yeah rite.].>.<>

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